Psyching the Zeitgeist:
Current Culture Through a Mental Health Lens

The Poetry of Nayyirah Waheed

I often find it difficult to find words to describe the joys and struggles of living this life; at these times, words fail me.  When this happens – which is often –  I rely on metaphor and poetry because it captures the nuances of emotion in a way that prose cannot. I love Nayyirah Waheed’s poetry and little… Read More

Dogs and people

I am a cat person. I am, however, increasingly appreciative of the many qualities that dogs bring to their human companions. In ‘Dogs’, Netflix’s new documentary series, we see six stories centered on how dogs and people change each other’s lives. The first episode, ‘The Kid with the Dog’, focuses on service dogs who are trained to… Read More

The Unthought Known and Dr. Christine Blasey Ford

In a recent piece on Crosscut, (“Dr. Christine Blasey Ford and the psychology of buried trauma“), Seattle writer and psychotherapist Carol Poole discusses Dr. Ford’s powerful testimony through the lens of traumatic experience and how it impacts the brain.  She notes that once we understand the neurobiology of trauma, we’re able to make sense of Dr. Ford’s incomplete memories… Read More

Smoky Summer Affecting Mental Health Around Pacific Northwest

We’ve had two summers now with significant smoky air from west coast wildfires. We northwesterners look forward to and treasure our short, perfect summers, so it’s disheartening to have to stay inside during our precious warm weather. There are health impacts as well as significant environmental degradations from these increasingly frequent and intense fires, but we’re affected… Read More

What is Feminism?

At a recent Women’s Therapy Referral Service member meeting, we explored the questions, “What is feminism?” and “What does it mean to be a feminist?”. We are a feminist organization, after all, and questions such as these are good ones for us to periodically explore. The outcome of this discussion was interesting. While we all could agree… Read More

Working Hard to Keep Everyone Around Us Happy

In her 4/7/18 New York Times Opinion Pages piece, Maureen Dowd writes about the “weird pattern” of women having sex with men they’re not attracted to. She asks, “You can lean in, but you can’t walk out?” I squirmed at this seeming suggestion of blame and letting men’s bad behavior off the hook.  At the same time,… Read More

Grief, Loss, and Technology

My father’s birthday was March 14th, and I’ve been missing him a lot lately. He died two and a half years ago of Chronic Lymphatic Leukemia, at sixty-nine years old. I’ve also been thinking a lot about my iPhone. This is because it’s been acting up–freezing on me for periods of time, refusing to give me access… Read More

How to Survive Seattle’s Long Rainy Season

The cold, gray rainy days of Seattle a winter can make even the perkiest people eventually feel blue. I’ve just perused several articles on this topic in case you are too waterlogged and gloomy to do it yourselves. The good news is that there are things you can do to make soggy weather bearable. The bad news… Read More

What to do When the Holidays Aren’t Happy

It’s a common expectation that the holidays are cheerful and that you should be too.  In reality, the holidays can be anything but cheerful for many people.  Here are three situations that can be especially challenging: Loneliness Psychologist Guy Winch, Ph.D addresses the negative health outcomes that accrue from chronic loneliness and suggests that people anticipating loneliness… Read More